Few months ago, I went to a fund raiser with my parents for a very good cause. I had such a great time just hanging out with the adults (my parents, my god-parents & their two grown kids). At this event, they were selling single roses (the money goes to the cause) and everyone that I knew got one. And If my boyfriend came with us, I know my boyfriend would buy one and surprise me with it.
I was in an awe to see how the adults were all lovey dovey and got a rose. But suddenly my god daddy gave me one and I thanked him for giving me so I didn’t feel left out. My god-daddy said that it wasn’t from him and that it was from a secret admire. But I laughed thinking that he was kidding around. That rose, I took it home after the event, still thinking it is from my god daddy.
Just recently, some random guy who doesn’t know how to speak english well and has a high pitched voice, called me asking if I was “Lan”. (That is my Vietnamese name, just for your own knowledge) I said that yes it was. He said that he was the guy that gave me that rose. Asked me if I still remembered, I said no (honestly I didn’t). He smoothly asked me what I was doing and etc. He said that the first time he saw me, he wanted to talk to me but he couldn’t because I was with my parents. He said that he’s been asking around for my number but no one has it. He said he’s been missing me since he saw me. I asked him how he even got my number, he said someone gave it to him?..
Anyways, he kept asking to take me out to eat or go bowling but I didn’t know how to say “no” but I didn’t say yes though. I kept giving him hint like: I am busy studying in school and I have to go home see my parents for dinner or I was still in class (but the television was clearly on loudly). He kept asking me questions about myself but I never answered much but “oh” or just one word answer. Then he would ask me if I was busy now and I would say yes then he would say call you tomorrow to let me study.
Today, he called me again but I sounded all mellow and didn’t want to talk to him. He said he missed me and wanted to hug me. He kept talking and I couldn’t understand him. He repeated like three times. He asked me if he could make friends with me but I said I don’t know. Then he said, “Oh okay, you want to be more than friends”. I said no. It keep going on and on and on..
My question is: How to get rid of this guy? He just doesn’t understand that I am not interested!!!
I have a friend who has been my boyfriends & my friend for quite sometime. He is also our roommate. Our friend’s family is balling rich and super kind in every way. They had put out so much money so that this girl (we will call her T) who is their god-daughter (future plans to do marriage if they were up to it). They gave her a home, fed her, money to spend and even gave her money for school.
Our friend wasn’t interested in her, it was us friends pushing him saying that “that’s your future wife” and so on. Anyways, whatever happened in their family with T, I don’t know but his family now hates her guts. His sisters has been calling her to say stop dating my brother and such. But she is purposely dating him so that his family would be pissed off. She hangs out with people that are friends with us and my boyfriends sister. She’s been saying that she doesn’t love him, she’s just playing a game so that the family can be mad, using him for money (that he doesn’t have) and that one day when she does get married in the family, his mother will be bitched and pushed around by her, her words were, “she should watch me.” My boyfriend’s sister had told him before and he said he’d watch out but he lives with us, we know he keeps seeing her...
Every time that he brings her out with us, she would just stare me down weirdly... But I heard that she got this weird jealousy going around. Though I knew about this problem, I kind of didn’t care because well, that’s his problem. But when my boyfriend’s sister says to stop hanging out with him when he’s with her... that’s kind of a problem.
My friend hanging out with her is a problem when he is spending money that he doesn’t have and have no money for house rent, that is a major problem.
I am kind of itching to tell “T” to fuck off and leave my friend alone, it’s only good for her to avoid getting beat down from myself, my boyfriend’s sister and his 2 sister...
Should I confront her? So that she knows I know everything and words gets around about her? Would you confront her? How to do it without causing a major scene?
Behind every girl is a problem that their boyfriends had started.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for just a little over 3 years and it seems that he can’t help me out with the house chorse! These mess around the house weren’t made from me but it is from him. I am really fustrated, specially when I come home from work, all tired and see those mess that he had created. I’d take ANY advice and try them all till he can fix himself up.
=( Come on, I feel so overwhelmed with fustration when I come home from work..
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